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Rodney Noble
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March 13 - May 25, 2022
Overthinking in any relationship can plague your mind with unimportant ideas and thoughts.
It can stress you out with suspicions, doubts, regrets, allusions, and distorted reality.
This practice will make you aware of the fact that a larger picture exists.
Try saying things like, “I am aware that we have countless things to think about at the moment. I understand that I am anxious and insecure. I understand that I have to do something to save the future of our relationship. But right now, I just need to take out a minute to relax.”
Constantly remind your mind that it is completely okay to let go of things that you cannot control. You cannot control who your partner sees or works with.
let go of these thoughts and constantly remind yourself that “I am relaxed” and “I am at peace.”
Then, you will learn how to observe the situation more deeply and calmly instead of reacting instantaneously.
Challenging your fears directly can reduce anxiety. It helps you visualize things that have little to no possibility of happening.
Let’s also hope that with this book in your mind, you can visualize how overthinking is the reason behind the wreckage of your relationship.
Now, the next step for you to do is to reaffirm every single day that you are on a journey to become a better person.
determination and consistency.
Always believe in yourself as well as your ability to make the changes necessary to save your relationship from overthinking.
Remember that overthinking is a poison, a poison that is slowly surrounding your relationship and making it weak from the very core.

