Grief lives in your body, in your thoughts, and in your feelings. It’s in your behavior and what you prioritize. It’s in your choices, how much or little you sleep, and how much or little you accomplish in a day. It’s there when you brush your teeth, when you watch television, when you scramble to get to an appointment, and when you scream-cry in your closet. Grief is there in sad moments, but grief is also there in the happy ones as well. You even grieve when you are actively resisting grief. To me, grief exists in the life lived and the human experience as you try to fucking exist after your
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