Parental Interactions Childhood Attachment Style Adult Attachment Style Protective Emotionally available Responsive Attuned Secure Secure 50–60% Unavailable Unresponsive Imperceptive or mis-attuned Rejecting Insecure: Avoidant Dismissive 20–30% Inconsistently responsive, available or attuned Intrusive Acting out of their needs for attention or affection over the child’s needs Insecure: Anxious Preoccupied 15–20% Frightening Threatening Frightened Disorienting Alarming Insecure: Disorganized Fearful-Avoidant 20–40%

