Examples of things that you and your partners can do to be secure bases for each other: Encourage each other’s personal growth and development. Support each other’s work and/or interests. Listen to each other’s hopes, dreams and visions. Listen when your partners share about their experiences in other relationships (assuming that the information shared is appropriate and consensual). Have conversations about things that are intellectually or emotionally stimulating to each other. Acknowledge each other’s capabilities and possibilities for growth. Compassionately bring light to your partner’s
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