Research has also shown that having a secure attachment style as an adult is correlated with higher levels of relationship satisfaction and balance,12 higher levels of empathy, respect and forgiveness for partners,13 and higher levels of sexual satisfaction when compared to people who are insecurely attached in their relationships.14 Additionally, having a secure base with a partner can increase sexploration, a term coined to describe “the degree to which a person co-constructs a sex-positive, supportive, and safe environment with their partner(s).”15
This is all very enlightening. I am seeing why I have been this way, and would really like to be open to the newness of my deires here. I want a partner, or to be in a community of partners who are all searching and yearning for a better way, a loving, self-positive way of living.
