Do you need to focus more on softening the rigidity of your boundaries and allowing more connection,
I am a tough nut to crack. Usually when I quickly discern someone is less intelligent, has poor taste in the arts, or lacking in some other aspect I find critical to demonstrate worth, then I am unapproachable or downright nasty/sarcastic. I am well-practiced at pushing people away, so much so that it is an automatic habit that occurs even before I make the "make it or break it" judgment. Think of that cute red haired girl who wanted to talk to you, and you gave her your card instead for her to contact you. You never saw her again. Happy about this, Steve???
