Examples of things that you and your partners can do to be safe havens for each other are: Give emotional support and comfort. Listen to each other with full attention. Inquire and share about feelings and needs. Track what is going on in each other’s lives and make sure to follow up and inquire about those things. Help in practical ways when a partner is tired or sick. Discuss or debrief events of the day or things that are important to each of you. Let your partners know how and why they matter to you.
