Before the wedding day, when I first meet with the bride- and groom-to-be, I always ask them, “Why do you love him/her?” One of the more common answers I get is, “Well, I love the way he makes me feel,” or “I love how she makes me feel.” I call them out on that. “Man, that sounds incredibly selfish. What you love about him is about you? You don’t love her for who she is but just for how she makes you feel?
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