“So, do you know what you’re having?” Robin asked. I put a hand on my round belly. “Well, I’m confident it’s a human baby. I know I’m naming the baby Zoomer. I have a little information about Zoomer’s chromosomes and anatomy, but I’m not going to assign a gender based on that. I’m going to do this thing called gender creative parenting. We use they/them pronouns instead of she/her or he/him pronouns. I don’t want Zoomer to be treated like a stereotypical girl or boy and only offered half the world. I just want Zoomer to get to be a kid. I think they’ll find their gender identity in their own
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