Developing honest bias will eliminate an entire category of unproductive disagreement from our lives that comes about when we think what we’re seeing is an unfiltered view of reality. When your beliefs are challenged by family members, spouses, coworkers, or friends, instead of leaping immediately to the conclusion that they’re wrong, you can instead ask yourself if you might be missing something that they can see but you can’t. Instead of saying, “I know I’m right!” say, “I’m not seeing what you’re seeing. Can you help me get there?” You don’t have enough information yet to know if what you
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