Scripture, Ethics, and the Possibility of Same-Sex Relationships

by Karen R. Keen

Paul’s point about symbolism is important to the debate on same-sex relationships. Traditionalists frequently argue that male and female must be upheld for marriage because this distinction symbolizes spiritual realities. It points to the eschatological wedding between Christ and the church or the Trinitarian relationship. Yet Paul counsels us not to confuse the symbol with the real thing. To slavishly uphold the symbol without regard for circumstances is wrong. Paul, following Jesus, teaches that attention to need is more important than practicing a symbol that witnesses to heaven. Why? Because mercy toward human suffering is the point. The eschatological wedding is the ultimate celebration of no more “mourning and crying and pain” (Rev. 21:3–4).