It’s amazing how you’re only able to see the negative in something until it’s almost gone, then you see it for what it was. It’s like people who hate their life until there’s a near-death experience, and that restores their appreciation for it. I had gotten so focused on the negatives of the relationship, I forgot what it was like before that, and what it would’ve been without me slowly deteriorating it over time, and now I wanted to keep it.
Don’t let yourself get there. Appreciate the flaws and focus on the good stuffs. But do not hesitate to speak when something is wrong or if things don’t add up. Stop jumping over conclusions. Ask questions and trust your gut feeling to analyze the answers + the facts.
