Is a pattern developing here? Do I seem to be in the habit of saying “It’s no big deal,” “No problem,” “I don’t have a preference” or “I don’t care”? If it were entirely up to me, what would I do? Is my body telling me something different from what my mind is telling me? (For example, you’re thinking: It’s only a movie, so even though I don’t feel like it, I’ll go—but you notice that your stomach is pumping more acid than usual.)

