woman and let[s] her man lead. Black women believe it’s 50/50 and you have to be uneducated to ever think such a thing.” There’s also the black woman on Facebook who told me that a guy wouldn’t let it go and asked if she was sure that she is only African-American because she’s beautiful. Or a white girlfriend who was confused as to why I get so many fewer messages from guys than she does. And, by the way, this is not just a hetero problem. OkCupid confirmed that black gay men get 20 percent fewer responses than all other races, so the problem is widespread. And the website pointed to the fact
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