You know how sometimes when you’re casually dating someone and you ask them to DTR aka define the relationship? That conversation usually goes one of two ways: (A) the person basically changes their name to “Boo, Your” on their driver’s license, which is impractical but touching, or (B) the person drops a ninja smoke bomb and disappears, and while that hurts your feelings, you’re also impressed because the old-school way of saying, “I gotta go,” and then struggling to put on your pre-tied New Balances because they are tied too tight, is not the jam. Well, thankfully, when I asked feminism if
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