Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones
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Here’s how the math works out: if you can get 1 percent better each day for one year, you’ll end up thirty-seven times better by the time you’re done.
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You should be far more concerned with your current trajectory than with your current results.
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Time magnifies the margin between success and failure. It will multiply whatever you feed it. Good habits make time your ally. Bad habits make time your enemy.
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Productivity compounds. Accomplishing one extra task is a small feat on any given day, but it counts for a lot over an entire career. The effect of automating an old task or mastering a new skill can be even greater. The more tasks you can handle without thinking, the more your brain is free to focus on other areas.
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Negative thoughts compound. The more you think of yourself as worthless, stupid, or ugly, the more you condition yourself to interpret life that way. You get trapped in a thought loop.
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Bamboo can barely be seen for the first five years as it builds extensive root systems underground before exploding ninety feet into the air within six weeks.
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Similarly, habits often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold and unlock a new level of performance.
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You expect to make progress in a linear fashion and it’s frustrating how ineffective changes can seem during the first days, weeks, and even months. It doesn’t feel like you are going anywhere. It’s a hallmark of any c...
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need to persist long enough to break through this plateau—what I call the Plateau of Latent Potential.
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If you find yourself struggling to build a good habit or break a bad one, it is not because you have lost your ability to improve. It is often because you have not yet crossed the Plateau of Latent Potential.
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Change can take years—before it happens all at once.
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“When nothing seems to help, I go and look at the stonecutter hammering away at his rock, perhaps a hundred times without as much as a crack showing in it. Yet at the hundred and first blow it will split in two, and I know it was not that blow that did it—but all that had gone before.”
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All big things come from small beginnings. The seed of every habit is a single, tiny decision.
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task of breaking a bad habit is like uprooting a powerful oak within us. And the task of building a good habit is like cultivating a delicate flower one day at a time.
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FORGET ABOUT GOALS, FOCUS ON SYSTEMS INSTEAD
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Goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress.
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Achieving a goal only changes your life for the moment.
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This is the meaning of the phrase atomic habits—a regular practice or routine that is not only small and easy to do, but also the source of incredible power; a component of the system of compound growth.
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Behind every system of actions are a system of beliefs.
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Behavior that is incongruent with the self will not last.
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change the underlying beliefs that led to your past behavior. You have a new goal and a new plan, but you haven’t changed who you are.
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The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity. It’s one thing to say I’m the type of person who wants this. It’s something very different to say I’m the type of person who is this.
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The more pride you have in a particular aspect of your identity, the more motivated you will be to maintain the habits associated with
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If you’re proud of the scarves you knit, you’ll be more likely to spend hours knitting each week.
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What you do is an indication of the type of person you believe that you are—either consciously or nonconsciously.*
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When you have repeated a story to yourself for years, it is easy to slide into these mental grooves and accept them as a fact. In time, you begin to resist certain actions because “that’s not who I am.”
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THE TWO-STEP PROCESS TO CHANGING YOUR IDENTITY
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I'll need to read this again.
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The more you repeat a behavior, the more you reinforce the identity associated with that behavior. In fact, the word identity was originally derived from the Latin words essentitas, which means being, and identidem, which means repeatedly. Your identity is literally your “repeated beingness.”
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your habits are not the only actions that influence your identity, but by virtue of their frequency they are usually the most important ones.
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Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to become. No single instance will transform your beliefs, but as the votes build up, so does the evidence of your new identity.
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Small habits can make a meaningful difference by providing evidence of a new identity.
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It is a simple two-step process: Decide the type of person you want to be. Prove it to yourself with small wins.
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First, decide who you want to be. This holds at any level—as an individual, as a team, as a community, as a nation. What do you want to stand for? What are your principles and values? Who do you wish to become? These are big questions, and many people aren’t sure where to begin—but they do know what kind of results they want: to get six-pack abs or to feel less anxious or to double their salary. That’s fine. Start there and work backward from the results you want to the type of person who could get those results. Ask yourself, “Who is the type of person that could get the outcome I want?” Who ...more
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Would a healthy person order a burrito or a salad? She figured if she acted like a healthy person long enough, eventually she would become that person. She was right.
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But what if you WANT a burrito??
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Your habits shape your identity, and your identity shapes your habits. It’s a two-way street.
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You have the power to change your beliefs about yourself. Your identity is not set in stone. You have a choice in every moment. You can choose the identity you want to reinforce today with the habits you choose today.
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What you crave is not the habit itself but the change in state it delivers.
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Every craving is linked to a desire to change your internal state. This is an important point that we will discuss in detail later.
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Cues are meaningless until they are interpreted. The thoughts, feelings, and emotions of the observer are what transform a cue into a craving.
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The response is the actual habit you perform, which can take the form of a thought or an action.
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Whether a response occurs depends on how motivated you are and how much friction is associated with the behavior. If a particular action requires more physical or mental effort than you are willing to expend, then you won’t do it. Your response also depends on your ability. It sounds simple, but a habit can occur only if you are capable of doing it. If you want to dunk a basketball but can’t jump high enough to reach the hoop, well, you’re out of luck. Finally, the response delivers a reward. Rewards are the end goal of every habit. The cue is about noticing the reward. The craving is about ...more
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Rewards close the feedback loop and complete the habit cycle.
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THE FOUR LAWS OF BEHAVIOR CHANGE
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Every goal is doomed to fail if it goes against the grain of human nature.
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Museum curators have been known to discern the difference between an authentic piece of art and an expertly produced counterfeit even though they can’t tell you precisely which details tipped them
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Gladwell uses this same analogy in bis book Blink.
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We can’t always explain what it is we are learning, but learning is happening all along the way, and your ability to notice the relevant cues in a given situation is the foundation for every habit you have.
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This is one of the most surprising insights about our habits: you don’t need to be aware of the cue for a habit to begin.
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As habits form, your actions come under the direction of your automatic and nonconscious mind.
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Over time, the cues that spark our habits become so common that they are essentially invisible: the treats on the kitchen counter, the remote control next to the couch, the phone in our pocket. Our responses to these cues are so deeply encoded that it may feel like the urge to act comes from nowhere. For this reason, we must begin the process of behavior change with awareness.
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“Does this behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be? Does this habit cast a vote for or against my desired identity?” Habits that reinforce your desired identity
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