I'm Judging You: The Do-Better Manual

by Luvvie Ajayi Jones

“If there’s a book that you want to read, but it hasn’t been written yet, then you must write it.” Prolific writer Toni Morrison once said that. And so I have.

Do not be this friend, because we’re not all in the same race, so why do you think we’re in the same lane?

They’re so used to doing it that they don’t even realize it, and you start telling them your good news less and less.

“When people show you who they are, believe them.”

Fake forgiving-and-forgetting is pointless if you will always resent that person, or hold it over their head. I know myself. It’s really hard for me to get over betrayals or lack of trust. Jesus forgives; I pout. This

Henry Thomas Buckle said, “Great minds discuss ideas. Average minds discuss events. Small minds discuss people.” Dead white men love getting stuff wrong, man. I love discussing people, and my mind is quite large, judging by my forehead, thankyouverymuch, Henry.

We should all think very highly of ourselves. Confidence will take you far, because thinking you’re an awesome person allows you to dream bigger, want more, and expect great things from yourself.