Remember This When You're Sad: A book for mad, sad and glad days (*from someone who's right there)

by Maggy van Eijk

Sex won’t bring it to life – self-care and self-respect and genuinely being OK will bring it to life. Having someone thrust their fingers inside me so deep it hurts isn’t me enjoying myself or having a great time. I’m self-harming, and I’m using someone else to do it.