Reclaiming the language of illness and dying enables us to have simple, unambiguous conversations about death. Allowing each other to discuss dying, rather than treating the D-words as magic ciphers that may cause harm merely by being spoken aloud, can support a dying person in anticipating the last part of their living, in planning ahead in order to prepare their loved ones for bereavement, and can bring the notion of death as the thing that happens at the end of every life back into the realm of the normal.
