Part 4 of this book is for those of us who are struggling with or feeling stagnant in our marriage but don’t want to throw in the towel. We want to improve the relationship, and we’re willing to do something about it. Maybe we’re hoping for a quick fix (chapter 9). Maybe we’re hoping to double down in pursuit of the sort of stellar marriage that has become possible in the self-expressive era (chapter 10). Maybe we’re looking for opportunities to relieve some of the pressure for a while so we can get back into a good groove together (chapter 11). Maybe we’re looking for a blend of these
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