Now, for those of you thinking, Oh no, I already have a boyfriend. Or, I have a girlfriend. We are going to have to break up now. Let me say that I honestly do not care if you use the word boyfriend or girlfriend. What I do care deeply about is what you mean when you say those words. Be honest with yourself and with each other. If by boyfriend or girlfriend you mean, “This buys me certain privileges and access to this person,” then I am telling you, it does not. Not under God. So you can use the terms boyfriend and girlfriend. But make sure as you do, you keep in mind, and remind each other,
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