“We are only as sick as our secrets.”1 Concealing our transgressions from the one closest to us isn’t a healthy way to start a marriage. You don’t want to have to constantly redact comments to your spouse to make sure you don’t accidentally divulge information about your previous life. That would be an exhausting way to live! You want to be able to have the freedom in your home to know that all the doors of your life are open.

