If having a leader feels like oppression, let me implore you: pick the right leader! In Ephesians 5, Paul called women to submit “to your own husbands.” In marriage, you are not signing up for submission to all men. You are vowing to respond to one man. This is why it is so important to pick the right man. Ladies, be discerning in dating. Don’t settle for a selfish man and hope he will change. Get the right guy. Good leadership is a gift, not a burden.
