there are ways to tell them without necessarily complaining, such as, “That was a very long day, but I’m glad to be home. You look nice. What smells so good?” Even though you had a long day, you’re willing to engage. Your conversations might be simpler, even reserved, but putting some energy into good relations strengthens the bond. Likewise, if your partner is tired, you can moderate your speech so that it is soothing, not taxing.
