If you’re still holding on to judgments about a relationship that didn’t work out, for example, you may want to work on some self-forgiveness. See the relationship for what it was, what it taught you about your preferences and how you want to be loved. Do your inner work so your next relationship can be deeper and more fulfilling. Instead of dismissing all relationships as hard and impossible, thinking there’s something unlovable about you or something wrong with the way you love, keep refining, clarifying, and holding the vision of obtaining what you want. Be specific about the experience of
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