You can use this in all varieties of different professional and personal situations. So don’t ask, “What would you do?” or, “How do you come about…” Instead, ask about certain situations from the past, using this format: “What happened, how did you react, how did you resolve it or how did that turn out?” With this simple yet powerful upgrade in your communication, you are going to feel like a sorcerer or an oracle. You will be surprised to see how often people do exactly the same things they did in the past.

