‘You think your life is married life? Husbands can come and go, but your Lord is always there.’” Akram’s vision of taqwa also provided a key for combating oppression within marriage. To the husbands in the audience who might be tempted to mistreat their wives he’d state its corollary: “You don’t rule her! You didn’t create her! If your wife is happy, thank Allah and be happy. We did not create our wives, and we did not create our husbands. Allah did.” His reasoning was framed in the language of submitting to Allah alone: no human should have control over any other one. It sounded bracing,
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