We resume our places and I set the recorder back up on the table and Cassy starts talking about her philosophy of life, how one can change one's thinking and live life differently at any point, and how people, like her, have to. "I used to think the goal in life was to have everything stay the same," she says. "I've learned the hard way that life is about change. Not the essential goodness in us, that should be a constant, but our relationships, our work, our goals should always be in a state of change, be a work in progress—“ She shrugs "Otherwise we're dying, aren't we?" She looks at her
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