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Everyone is free to choose any destiny they wish. The only freedom we truly have is the freedom of choice. You can choose anything you want.”
Transurfing is a method that frees you to choose your own destiny, literally like you would choose something in a supermarket.
If you decide that fate is something predestined that you cannot personally change, then this is how it will be. In effect you are voluntarily giving yourself to the will of others, becoming like a small boat floating at the mercy of the waves. If however, you decide that you can create your own destiny then you will consciously take responsibility for everything that happens in your life, battling against the waves in an attempt to sail your little boat.
Reality has such diversity of form because the number of alternatives for its manifestation is limitless.
Managing your own destiny comes down to one single thing – making the choice.
Thought energy transforms possible alternatives into physical reality.
Nonetheless, thoughts have as much impact on a person’s destiny as concrete actions do.
No-one should feel hard done by if they do not like their fate, because everyone has the right to choose. The problem is that we do not know how to choose. The
Whatever you ‘order’, your choice is always granted unconditionally. Choice however, is different to desire. Wishes are only granted in fairy tales and most people just keep on wishing.
The stronger your desire to avoid something, the more likely it is that you will encounter it. To actively fight against what you do not want in your life is to make every effort to ensure that it is present in your life. You do not have to take any specific action to shift onto undesired life lines. It is enough to think negative thoughts and then fertilize them with emotion.
You can free yourself from a pendulum’s influence in two ways by defeating it or by stopping its sway.
The first and most important condition for successfully defeating a pendulum is to refuse to get into conflict with it.
If you want to eradicate something from your life all you have to do is stop thinking about it, pass it by with indifference and it will disappear. To eliminate something from your life, ignore it, do not avoid it.
To stop giving away your energy means to stop thinking about them altogether; to erase them from your mind.
If you ever find yourself in a situation that you know will unfold according to a set script, do something surprising. It does not matter what you do as long as it is something that does not fit with the standard script. This will stop the pendulum’s swing.
If you set yourself the goal of remembering until it becomes habit, you will gradually work up immunity to the provocation of pendulums.
You might think that focusing on the problem would help you to concentrate on finding a solution to it, and yet the opposite happens; it actually hinders you from finding a solution.
Until you change the vibration of your energy you will just have to keep putting up with the same line. Changing your vibration, however, is not that difficult to do.
We always end up getting the things and situations which our thoughts are most strongly attached to. Our thoughts always come back to us like a boomerang.
Simply observe for yourself how every time you react negatively, something else regrettable follows.
Acquire the habit of giving your attention to all that is positive and good. As soon as you see, read or hear something pleasing or encouraging hold it in your thoughts and let it lift your spirits.
Close yourself off to bad news and remain open to good news.
Take the exact opposite position; be joyful in the face of failure, and deliberately look for even the slightest blessing. You can always find something. Maintain the perspective that the glass is half full.
that disappoints us is so deeply entrenched. The most important thing to remember when you suffer a setback is that the setback has been created by a pendulum that is trying to get its hook into you. Once you remember this fact, you can make a conscious choice as to whether you would rather vent your negative emotions and give energy to the pendulum, or gain victory over the pendulum by leaving it without a scrap of your emotional energy. Once you can remember this, it is not that difficult to defeat a pendulum or still its sway.
If you love your work because it coincides with your personal goal then it can serve as the tunnel that leads to success.
All shortcomings that a person acquires are shortcomings of the mind, not the soul.
Energy could then be transferred from battling with imperfection to developing more worthy qualities and the quality of this new energy would correspond to life lines where positive characteristics outweigh weaknesses.
You end up getting what you decisively do not want. When you are dissatisfied with yourself you enter into conflict with your soul. When you are dissatisfied with the world around you, you end up entering into conflict with a large number of pendulums.
If you set yourself the task of looking for the positive in every negative situation you encounter, you will find that it is not actually that difficult to do. It can even be a kind of game. If you play the game consistently, the old habit will be replaced by the new one, which will be of great benefit to you personally but a nightmare for destructive pendulums!
As soon as you weaken, a pendulum will find a reason to upset you and you will observe that once again you have given it your energy. Do not be disappointed if this happens. If your intention is strong you will get there and eventually destructive pendulums will leave you alone.
All you have to do is keep reminding yourself of your original intention.
Try loving without expectation of reward.
If you want your love to be mutual you have to love simply without thought of whether you are loved or not.
The majority of unpleasant moments we experience are generated by the actions of balanced forces as part of their function in eliminating excess potential created either by you or those in your immediate environment.
Switch your intention from increasing your own sense of self-importance to developing the qualities you
admire.
“The stronger you want something the less likely you are to get it”. When you want something so much that you are willing to place everything on the cards to get it, you create huge excess potential which destroys balance. Balanced forces can then throw you onto a life line where there is no trace of the object you desired.
