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There are three common types of visualisation technique. The first type is the dream. From a practical point of view this is the weakest and most unreliable form of visualisation.
The second type of visualisation is the film.
In the third type of visualisation the person plays a role in the film rather than simply observing it.
visualisation of your goals is the work of desire which will not bring you a single step closer to your goal.
In Transurfing the visualisation practice involves imagining a mental picture of the process of moving towards your goal based on the principle that the goal must be reached sooner
Contemplating the end result will expand the limits of your comfort zone and so in this sense it has its value, but visualising the process of moving towards your goal will significantly quicken the work of outer intention.
If you do not know yet how your goal might be realized do not worry; just continue visualising your slide calmly and systematically.
key conditions for mastering outer intention: awareness, reducing importance, and letting go of the goal.
The mind can make a perfect copy but only the heart is capable of an original.
Your Angel needs your energy but it will not ask you for it.
beauty lies not in the heart or soul but rather in the harmonious connection between heart and mind.
The mind insists that there is not enough money and yet the heart is not asking for money. It is asking for a toy! Arguing that there is no money the mind places a taboo on the toy (it is unrealistic, elusive), and the heart has nothing else accept to close up inside and not mention the toy again. And the dream’s funeral is over.
The mind should have agreed to having the toy and then outer intention would have taken care of how to find the money for it.
When considering your goal, do not think about whether it is prestigious. Shake the goal from the pedestal of unattainability. This will reduce outer importance. Likewise, when you are thinking about your goal do not think about how to achieve it. This will reduce internal importance. Only think about how comfortable you feel.
“The one who does not know how to hate will never learn to love.”
Firstly, never torture yourself with the problem of choosing because this destroys the balance.
if you have to persuade yourself to have something, it is not yours.
No happiness awaits a person in the near or the distant future when they are living a life line that is not their true path.
A foreign goal always feels like an obligation. It is punishing and forced.
You cannot make other people happy but you can easily injure others with your own unhappiness.
The only one hundred percent guarantee of reaching a goal is if it really is your own innermost goal
Your goal should be the answer to the question: what do you want most out of life? What will make your life happy and joyful? This is all that matters. You can consider anything else to be pendulum husks.
The need for a house, a car, beautiful clothes and other attributes can be replaced with the single goal to have a high-paying job, but as you know this would not be a goal so much as a door, and a fairly vague one at that.
If your door fits your goal you will become rich doing the hobby you love most.
If you run out of patience then you obviously have a passionate desire to achieve your goal as quickly as possible. If this is the case, go back to the beginning and reduce the level of importance. If you desire something, it suggests that you doubt whether the goal is realistically achievable, so work on expanding the limits of your comfort zone once again until you can see real prospects unfolding.
When you are moving towards your goal through the right door there is no need to apply excessive effort. Nor should you have to force yourself to do anything. If you find the opposite it true you have either chosen the wrong goal or the wrong door.
All the time that you are insisting on something, pressuring for something to happen, you are preventing outer intention from realizing your goal in harmony with the alternatives flow;
You convince the mind not that everything will go smoothly but that everything is already going smoothly.
There is no way of successfully persuading, convincing or forcing yourself to believe something.
Inspiration comes from union between heart and mind in the absence of importance.
So this is the scene you end up with. You set the table for yourself, light the candles for yourself, make yourself comfortable and begin drinking tea for your own pleasure without waiting for anyone else to arrive. You can be certain that the whimsical muse will be affected by your display of indifference wondering how you could have forgotten about her. She will appear and instantly fall in beside you. That is the secret.
First stand in a comfortable, relaxed position.
Starting mediation
To play the healing game means to take active interest in possible cures, to make efforts to live a healthy lifestyle, to treat your illness with humour and to focus your attention on improving how you feel, striving towards health and communicating with like-minded individuals.
That is the “I am ill and they will make me better” game. On an energetic level this game is no different from the Illness game because you are playing at healing from a position of duress rather than personal conviction.
