“Yep, you don’t need to find closure. You can’t just close the book when you love someone and instantly move on. You have to quit trying to find closure and instead try to find enclosure. You have to find the place to keep those memories and feelings. From time to time, you have to open them up, remember, and experience them all over again. You need those moments—they’re a part of who you are, and they can make you better. Then you can enclose them…move forward and follow.”
