or a request?” I can respond in two ways: I can say, “yes, it is a law. I am head of the home; bring me the cup of coffee.” Or more wisely I can say, “of course you do not have to,” and get the cup of coffee myself. In either case, her asking the question alerts me to the fact that something is terribly wrong in our relationship. When you love another the difference between law and request should be moot. You need to know what a person wants in order to give it to him, and you should view the commandments of God from this perspective. For this reason, the distinction between law and request
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