Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex

by John Gray

men mistakenly offer solutions and invalidate feelings while women offer unsolicited advice and direction.

While Martians tend to pull away and silently think about what’s bothering them, Venusians feel an instinctive need to talk about what’s bothering them.

Men are motivated when they feel needed while women are motivated when they feel cherished.