Initially, most of us find that the needle points to fawn no matter which direction we are trying to go. The needle doesn’t even know there are other directions. We don’t get immediate access to the entire circumference; we are working with degrees. Not immediately collapsing in the face of conflict is a huge degree. Not immediately rescuing someone from their own pain is a huge degree. Asking ourselves what we want or need and then meeting these to the best of our ability…I mean, this moves the needle at least several degrees. And eventually we find that we have the full range of motion we’ve
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