“Most twenty-somethings think they know everything, which means they are certain they will never do things the way others have done them.” Hello, head of nail, here’s the hammer. “Maybe it’s more that I didn’t know what I didn’t know. And I thought I knew things I knew nothing about.” “Who told you I love riddles?” I laugh once, but it’s more of a bark. “Hindsight is usually twenty-twenty,” Dr. Ruben says. “Everyone has things they look back on with greater clarity than when they were in the moment. You’re awfully hard on yourself.”

