Examples: In conversation, they keep the discussion focused on them and what they are going through. They rarely, if ever, check up on you and what you are facing. They are not bothered by making people wait on them. They do not consider other people’s time as valuable as theirs. On the rare occasion you do try to pour your heart out to them, they brush you off, minimize your pain, and then try to one-up you by telling you why their struggle is way more serious than yours. They borrow your car, but when you get it back, there’s no gas and they left trash inside.
