Again, make this list of needs your own, based on the unique circumstances you have experienced and what will help bring security and trust back into your relationship. They need to fully disclose what they did. Details aren’t always helpful (don’t go shopping for pain), but be honest about what you need. Disclosed information is so much better than continuously making discoveries of what else happened. take responsibility for what they’ve done.* seek to understand how this impacted you.* acknowledge what this cost you. welcome your questions and desire for clarification. give you space and
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