‘By forcing an answer, you risk closing your ears to what your heart is telling you, misinterpreting your feelings or worse, deceiving yourself. Write how you really feel. You’re thinking and fretting over it now, right? Say so. Or you can just whine about not having an answer; that’s also another solution. What you’re doing now is not just writing an essay. You’re carefully considering what you want to do in life. In that case, you shouldn’t rush into an answer.’

