Of course, it is good to have feelings from the Chimp and they can be a very useful indication for us to know what to do. However, they are not always reliable and can change quickly. So working with feelings can be helpful or unhelpful. Sometimes the Human needs to say to the Chimp, ‘I don’t care how you feel we have to do it,’ or ‘I don’t care whether you are in the mood or not, it is not about mood.

