“I’m a nice person, okay? I’m not like those other guys you know. Like your mom’s boyfriend. I don’t have yellow fever if that’s what you’re worried about. You know how much I read. I’ve studied pretty much every topic relating to race and gender. Fetishization is a form of oppression. I’m not an oppressor. I’m an ally! My feelings for you—no, my love for you—goes way beyond race. I love you for who you are on the

