Goodreads helps you keep track of books you want to read.
Start by marking “Ugly Love: A Survivor’s Story of Narcissistic Abuse” as Want to Read:
Ugly Love: A Survivor’s Story of Narcissistic Abuse
by
Have you ever felt like a normal discussion
turns into him raging at you, while you cower in
the corner, not certain what just happened
to set him off? Have you felt like you would be
punished if you stand up for yourself? Have you ever
been told you are imagining things and
everyone thinks you're crazy? Have you
been told no one else could ever love you?
Have you been led ...more
turns into him raging at you, while you cower in
the corner, not certain what just happened
to set him off? Have you felt like you would be
punished if you stand up for yourself? Have you ever
been told you are imagining things and
everyone thinks you're crazy? Have you
been told no one else could ever love you?
Have you been led ...more
Kindle Edition, 190 pages
Published
July 27th 2018
by BookBaby
Friend Reviews
To see what your friends thought of this book,
please sign up.
Reader Q&A
To ask other readers questions about
Ugly Love,
please sign up.
Be the first to ask a question about Ugly Love
This book is not yet featured on Listopia.
Add this book to your favorite list »
Community Reviews
Showing 1-12

Start your review of Ugly Love: A Survivor’s Story of Narcissistic Abuse

This is one of the best books from a Survivor’s perspective I’ve read. The author describes her own painful and devastating journey with her Narcissistic mother and then the abusive Narcissistic man that was her husband for many years.
It’s more than just her story which I related to so much with both relationships but it’s informative as to what Narcissist’s do and how there are varying degrees of it.
It has a brilliant extensive section on gaslighting, most books cover it but this really dissec ...more
It’s more than just her story which I related to so much with both relationships but it’s informative as to what Narcissist’s do and how there are varying degrees of it.
It has a brilliant extensive section on gaslighting, most books cover it but this really dissec ...more

“””this wasn’t the life or fairy tale you said “yes” to”””
First off, Ugly Love is the PERFECT title for this book, for this trap that we either are born into, fall for....or both. To give a detailed description would be giving away all the best parts of this book. A narcissist. Cruel, selfish, narrow minded...destructive without remorse. If you’re living with one, read this book. If you’ve survived one, read this book. If you’re related to one, read this book. Warning, it will trigger ALL your ...more
First off, Ugly Love is the PERFECT title for this book, for this trap that we either are born into, fall for....or both. To give a detailed description would be giving away all the best parts of this book. A narcissist. Cruel, selfish, narrow minded...destructive without remorse. If you’re living with one, read this book. If you’ve survived one, read this book. If you’re related to one, read this book. Warning, it will trigger ALL your ...more

THis book is all about a woman's experience living wish a Narcissist and dealing
with the constant abuse and manipulation that he placed on her. It was heartbreaking to listen
to how he made her question her own judgement on things that she knew to be true. I can't
imagine having to live under that constant bagering it would drive anyone crazy. THis book
really opens the readers eyes to things that are not right in relationships and helps shine
the light on things that abusers would rather have left ...more
with the constant abuse and manipulation that he placed on her. It was heartbreaking to listen
to how he made her question her own judgement on things that she knew to be true. I can't
imagine having to live under that constant bagering it would drive anyone crazy. THis book
really opens the readers eyes to things that are not right in relationships and helps shine
the light on things that abusers would rather have left ...more

Laura Charanza wrote 'Ugly Love' as a two-time survivor of narcissistic abuse. In her book, she shows how living with a narcissistic person follows a specific pattern and how anyone could fall into their trap. In the last quarter of the book, Charanza discusses how you can get help and support from narcissistic abuse, utilizing her own experiences to show that it is possible to leave and rebuild your life.
While I found that Charanza had a lot of great information and input from professionals, I ...more
While I found that Charanza had a lot of great information and input from professionals, I ...more

Not the best book in terms of writing skills, but relatable content and helpful advice in my preferred form (story).
I really wish I had no need to be reading survivors stories of narcissistic abuse, but here we are. And hopefully I'll have one of my own to add soon. For now I just find it helpful to know that I am not alone. ...more
I really wish I had no need to be reading survivors stories of narcissistic abuse, but here we are. And hopefully I'll have one of my own to add soon. For now I just find it helpful to know that I am not alone. ...more

This little book has a lot of good information for anyone who has been in the clutches of a narcissist, so I appreciate that. However, the advice is minimal and fairly basic, so it's best used as an "intro" book on the subject.
...more

Wow! A must read for anyone who has been or is in an abusive toxic relationship, or anyone who has a loved friend or family member in one.
It opens your eyes to many things and a lot of behavior that we shouldn't be okay with.
Must read!! ...more
It opens your eyes to many things and a lot of behavior that we shouldn't be okay with.
Must read!! ...more
There are no discussion topics on this book yet.
Be the first to start one »
Related Articles
Luvvie Ajayi Jones—author, cultural critic, digital entrepreneur—might be best described as a professional truthteller. Her crazily popular...
1 likes · 0 comments
No trivia or quizzes yet. Add some now »