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3.81  ·  Rating details ·  5,011 ratings  ·  1,485 reviews
Alice had her whole summer planned. Non-stop all-you-can-eat buffets while marathoning her favorite TV shows (best friends totally included) with the smallest dash of adulting--working at the library to pay her share of the rent. The only thing missing from her perfect plan? Her girlfriend (who ended things when Alice confessed she's asexual). Alice is done with dating--no ...more
ebook, 304 pages
Published January 23rd 2018 by Swoon Reads
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"Ownvoices: Ownvoices for Black representation, biromanticism and asexuality."(less)
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Mar 30, 2018 rated it really liked it
Asexuality is real.

It is not ‘‘weird’’ or ‘‘unnatural’’ or a ‘‘mental illness’’. If you have trouble wrapping your mind around this concept, that’s okay. This is why this story was written: to educate and to answer your questions without info-dumping you.

And make you melt. Not only is this story relevant, fresh and informative, it also makes your insides feel warm and mushy.

Because Alice is relatable. I may not identify as being asexual, but that didn’t keep me from unde
C.G. Drews
Sep 05, 2016 rated it really liked it
You know what we need to talk about?! How absolutely ADORABLE this book is. Actually wait wait....adorkable is the better word. Because it's cute and fluffy and dorky and wholesome and my heart feels rather full right now. I shall sniffle happily in the corner.

I do kind of feel like it's more New Adult?! Like the GOOD kind of NA where you care about the characters and the plot lmao. But I'm guessing Alice was 19 (??) and life was all about how to adult and be in college and live on your own and etc. etc. And all the/>Iwait....
Finally a book about an asexual, biromantic black mc!!! Guys my heart is literally bursting from the cuteness, please read this!!! The friendships are so pure and lovely and Alice is such a realistic and relatable MC and you can't help but loving her. And Takumi? He's mine, sorry.

I loved this book. Everything about it was so adorable, informing, sweet, realistic, relatable and made my insides mush.

Alice's girlfriend broke up with her because Alice "doesn't like sex" and that's not t
kav (xreadingsolacex)
Nov 15, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Disclaimer: I received an ARC from the publisher in exchange for an honest review. This in no way impacts my review of the novel.

I’m in need of a setting to give this novel 6 out of 5 stars because h o l y c r a p y’all, this novel changed my life.

LET’S TALK ABOUT LOVE is a story about a biromantic asexual black woman, Alice, in college, living with her two best friends who are dating, and working at a library where she meets Takumi, who changed her life forever.

I requ
Caidyn (SEMI-HIATUS; BW Reviews; he/him/his)
This review and others can be found on BW Book Reviews.

DNF at 14% – 1/5

First thing’s first.

I am asexual. I’ve identified as such since I was about 15-16 (and I’m nearly 22 now). Sex doesn’t interest me that much. While I, personally, would never discount that I could find someone I want to do that with or would feel comfortable doing it with, I’m not interested in it.

And when I heard about this book, I was so excited. Finally, a book about asexuality/>DNF
Chelsea (chelseadolling reads)
Feb 25, 2019 rated it liked it
Recommended to Chelsea by: Bexnbookx
Shelves: queer
I looooooooved the writing and asexual representation in this, but the plot of the story as a whole wasn't really my favorite. With that being said, I'm definitely still really excited to read her next book, If It Makes You Happy, because it centers around a queer fat girl. SIGN. ME. UP.
I'm sorry.
I struggled with this one.

It wasn't a bad book. Not at all. It was a good book but I just couldn't get into the story. I really had to push myself to get through it and contemplated DNF'ing around the halfway mark.

I really wanted to love this. I have been anticipating it for so long that I think I may have inadvertently set myself up for disaster.

I'm sorry.
I struggled with this one.

It wasn't a bad book. Not at all. It was a good book but I just couldn't get into the story. I really had to push myself to get through it and contemplated DNF'ing around the halfway mark.

I really wanted to love this. I have been anticipating it for so long that I think I may have inadvertently set myself up for disaster.

It's not you book, it's me.
I wanted to love every moment of you and I just didn't.
I found you a bit...

...boring, if I'm being honest.
There I said it.

I couldn't stand Alice's friend, Feenie. Alice, I liked, but eventually I grew tired of her issues with her parents. I understand it is easy to avoid confrontation but it is your family. I just couldn't connect with the way she handled that and her siblings were terrible.

Feenie was the worst though. Every page with her on it annoyed me.

I did eventually enjoy the relationship between Alice and Takumi but it took a while. I also enjoyed how diverse this story was. I had never read a book with an Ace main character before and I definitely enjoyed that part of the story, that was honestly the highlight for me, the rest...

The end was stronger for me than any other part of the book and I actually wouldn't mind a continuation just to see where Alice ends up. Does that seem contradictory?

I guess I was just underwhelmed because I expected to love this SO MUCH.
Damn you Hype-Train.
Though I did it to myself.
enqi ☁️✨ kell maresh lovesite
"If knowing you’re asexual makes someone see you differently, then they don’t deserve to be in your life.”

this is my most anticipated book of 2018. it has amazing representation and the heroine is black, biromantic and asexual you're welcome
I shouldn’t rate this book because it’s too close and it hurt me too much for me to see it clearly. But I rated it anyway because even though I primarily hate it for personal and petty reasons, there are plenty of things about it that are bad despite my personal feelings.

I hate this book.

I hate it because it’s like every stereotype in every YA contemporary ever mashed together. I hate it because it reads like a loose assortment of scenes and tropes put together an/>I
It's 1:50am, I don't even know why I decided to write this review right now but here I am.

I remember when I first heard about this book, it was somewhere around May 2017 and I just got extremely excited about it. Then people started getting ARCs and loving it — one of my friends fell in love with this story and because I trusted their judgment I preordered the book without knowing much about it.

Alice is a 19-year-old biromantic asexual Black girl whom girlfriend just brok
Lily ☁️
3 1/2 stars

Let’s Talk About Love is really sweet and heart-warming, but I felt like something was missing? I need a little bit more than just the main character Alice aceing that whole dating thing to make me really like a book. (rtc)

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LOOK AT THE TAGLINE, GUYS!! I’m sold (on the pun & this book).

Also, who wants to take a minute to appreciate the diversity in this book with me; we have a Black bi- (or pan)-romantic asexual female main character, the love interest is Japanese, and in addition to the queer rep, there is also La*
Trina (Between Chapters)
Here's what I loved:
-The discussions of asexuality and romance.
-That therapy was normalized.
-It's set in college! And in a library!
-I really liked Alice and Takumi as characters.

Here's what I didn't enjoy:
-There was a conflict between Alice and her best friend that stressed me out to no end. Because Alice was so relateable, I was firmly on her side of the situation and felt the friend was unfair and selfish but it was all forgiven after statements like "
Emma Giordano
Jun 09, 2018 rated it liked it
This was an enjoyable book! It took me quite a bit longer than expected to get through, but nonetheless, I'm pleased I gave it a read.

CW: acephobia

To be honest, I really did not love the writing style of this book. It felt a bit amateur and surface-level for my taste. Sometimes it felt as if the author was trying to push the "my main character is super quirky!" thing really hard. Additionally, I've always felt people who criticize the excessive use of a certain form of pu
**Note: I read the free-to-read version of this book that was posted on Swoon Reads, which may not be is not the final version.

**2nd note: I'm removing my one-star rating after seeing reviews saying the problematic stuff has been fixed in the published version. I haven't read that version myself yet, though.

**3rd note: Here's a review of the published version that shows that not *all* of the troubling stuff has been fixed:

**4th note: Well, I finally read the publi
Anja V
Sep 26, 2017 marked it as to-read
a book with a BIROMANTIC ASEXUAL WOC as MC???
this is right out of my dreams

”Life could be cruel. But it could also be wonderful.”

This is a tough review to write. I really wanted to five star this book because it has hella diversity and it was so fun, but there were also some issues with the writing and with Takumi. However, that doesn’t mean that this isn’t a book that deserves lots of readers and support, because it deals with a lot of issues that marginalized peoples have to deal with today, while still maintaining a light aura.

What I Liked
1. The diversity!! The main character is/>What
Jun 29, 2018 rated it really liked it
Let's Talk About Love is the most cutest, relatable, educational (without being info dump-y) and the most positive NEW ADULT novel I've read so far. And I'm kinda angry why this is published as a young adult book when it's clearly NA. All the characters are 19-21, dealing with college life and plunging into the blackhole of adulthood and it's honestly the most ideal NA book and now I'm going to rate all my NA stories in accordance with this one.

This book is about Alice, a nineteen year old co
Kate (GirlReading)
Feb 15, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: 2018-favourites
4.5* Let's Talk About Love made my heart squee. It gave me all of the happy, fuzzy feelings. With it's wonderful exploration of asexuality, witty dialogue, loveable characters and addictive relationships, I couldn't recommend it more highly.
I absolutely adored Alice and Takumi and there are passages I'm sure I could read one hundred times over and never get bored. I LOVED the fact that this focused on an older teen/young adult and the fact that she didn't have her life 100% put together and sor
2.8 stars.

[ADDENDUM: THIS REVIEW IS LONG. I had a lot to say. TLDR; The representation is great but I was very bored.

BUT if you think the below enumerated list sounds like something you'd like, consider giving this book a try! I think other people might be pulled in where I wasn't.]


I so so badly wanted to like this, and I'm very sad to have to give it such a low rating. There is A LOT to like:


2. POC representation! Both in th/>[ADDENDUM:
Trigger warnings: aphobia, creepy af dudes at parties, some seriously mediocre parenting?

I stand by everything I said last time. The end.

This book. This book, this book, this book. I've been dying to read this book for over a year now, and words cannot describe how much I squealed when it arrived on my Kindle the other day.

This book tells the story of a biromantic, asexual African-American girl who's crushing on her Asian-American coworker. She works in
Let's talk about how cute this book is!

// Can we appreciate the tag on the cover: "Alice is about to ace this whole dating thing"?? 🤩

I adored Alice. She was a fun, lovable character who was her own person and proud of it. Black, beautiful, biromantic and asexual, she rocked this book.

Many other characters, however, I wanted to kill slowly and painfully. Like FEENIE. That ungrateful, self centered devil child deserved to DIE. Same with Alice's freaking terrible fa
Sara➽ Ink Is My Sword
“Love shouldn’t hinge solely on exposing your physical body to another person. Love was intangible. Universal. It was whatever someone wanted it to be and should be respected as such.”

A perfect book for a light summer read. Friendship, love, romance, cuteness, diversity, self-discovery and a bit of seriousness.

💭Pre-reading thoughts:

📖 BooktubeAThon Challenge #1 Choose your first read with a coin.

This was one of my most anticipated book releases of 2018, I hope it doesn't let me down.
Feb 09, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: queer-lit, favorites
Olivia-Savannah  Roach
Ah, what can I say? Never before have I wanted to rate a book 3.5 stars more than now. I don’t do .5 ratings because Goodreads and Amazon don’t work that way, but if I could I would’ve for this novel. Let’s Talk About Love is everything the book promises to be – it’s about Alice, an asexual main character who is trying to figure out her sexuality, her future, and how everything in her life fits into who she is becoming.

I think I’m going to try and address what is the main focus in this novel, and that is
"A" is for Asexual Alice! This book was truly amazing! Alice was goofy, awkward and such an overthinker. Her character was relatable and loveable. At times she could be whiny and dramatic. But I still loved that about her because it made her that much more realistic.

Black queer woman? ✔
Realistic, respectful representation? ✔
Interesting characters and plot? ✔
Realistic rep of friendship? ✔

This book was fun, adorable and informative. It briefly touched on certain cult
Marta (thecursedbooks)
I want to thank Macmillan US for sending me this copy of Let’s Talk about Love, this hadn’t influenced my rating/review in any way.
Check out my review and a discussion on reviewing diverse books on my blog here
- This book is lots of fluff. I mean it. Think about the fluffiest book you’ve ever read. Okay. Now multiplicate this by 100 and you get this book. So fluffy.
- Diversity is important in this book. Alice is asexual, biromantic and a black woman, she’s also struggling with coming
Laura (bbliophile)
Feb 28, 2018 rated it really liked it
The fact that this is a book about an asexual biromantic black woman finding her happily ever after is so incredibly special and wonderful and I wish there were more books like this.

This book made me so incredibly happy. I loved Alice and Takumi together. Their dynamics are amazing, the way they tease each other, watch movies together and cook food for each other is the cutest thing, and I had a big grin on my face while reading their scenes. They’ve easily become one of my favorite
Sep 09, 2018 marked it as to-read  ·  review of another edition
ayy lmao celebrated coming out to my entire immediate family all at once by anxious-buying this book :')
Alice-Elizabeth (marriedtobooks)
I am part of the promotional tour for this book! Subscribe to my blog: www.marriedtobooksreviewsandblog.word...

I was super excited to learn that I had a place on the tour a few months back, I generally enjoy reading the books that Swoon Reads have published. The website is definitely one of my favourites, just to spend hours searching for stories to read that really captivate you. Let’s Talk About Love certainly did just that. Alice, the main character, identifies as biromantic asexual. She is in a relationship with a girl ca
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