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Let's Get Real or Let's Not Play: Transforming the Buyer/Seller Relationship

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The new way to transform a sales culture with clarity, authenticity, and emotional intelligence. Too often, the sales process is all about fear. Customers are afraid that they will be talked into making a mistake; salespeople dread being unable to close the deal and make their quotas. No one is happy. Mahan Khalsa and Randy Illig offer a better way. Salespeople, they argue ...more
ebook, 256 pages
Published October 30th 2008 by Portfolio
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Feb 18, 2009 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Recommends it for: Everyone
This is the book that all of my business relationships are based on. I have a copy at home, a copy in the office and a copy ready to give away. I refer to what I take away with each read several times each day.
Sachin Ganpat
One of the better sales books that I've read.

The book is clearly written to promote the authors' business, but it does not appear too salesy. It offers lots of great information.

While not much information is new and you can find it in many other sales books, what made this one clearly better is that they offer ways to address challenges. With suggested actions and scripts, you have a clearer idea of what to do and say.

I've read lots of sales books. They all come in two flavours - what to do to
May 26, 2013 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This book was chosen for a book club discussion. Usually we read a book throughout the month before and then have the chat about it. Since the book is full of detailed, practical information, it would actually be one that is better to discuss by chapter. I found myself reading slower because I wanted to retain more of the information. It is a great reference to have and definitely a better way to be in sales. I can see the method as one to apply beyond the business-to-business relationship].
Tom S
Jul 20, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Excellent sales book. The de facto reference at my company for sales people and it works really well.

Good ideas, well put together and good takeaways you can actually use. I particularly like the sound bites and "3 part response" I have used verbatim with a number of clients and they worked exactly as expected.
Wilbert Van Der Kruk
Excellent structured method for sales and consultative selling and early strategy analysis. I have sort of learned it by heart, having received training from the author (Khalsa) himself twice, listening to the audio book and training my colleagues in this method. I highly recommend it.
Eddie Howden
Exellent. Truly the best training I have had for my sales career.
Mar 29, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Best book on sales I've ever read.
This book focuses on sales, clients, and the beep beep customers. I thought it was a pretty good business book even though I haven't had read a ton in this genre but I am a businessman. This book kinda reminded me of First, Break All the Rules: What the World's Greatest Managers Do Differently Now on to the notes:

As trust goes up, speed goes up, and cost goes down. As trust decreases, everything slows and costs rise. This applies to more than just business but in everyday relationships.

You're mo
Oct 09, 2011 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Work related book as I attended two days of sales training with the sales guys. Very interesting two days and the principles in the book corresponds well with what I believe in and hopefully also generate: Integrity and doing your job with a conscience. I really like the thought of transforming from the old-fashined and often negative word "sales person" to a "trusted business advisor". Key words for me: High-integrity, trustworthy & win-win relationships. As a benefit: Increased business op ...more
Oct 13, 2016 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: business
BRILLIANT. Anyone selling anything must read this book. Anyone running anything must read this book. A seminal sales training volume filled with insight into the value of properly qualifying, closing, servicing, and delighting your prospects and customers. I recommend this above anything by Zig Z. or Brian T. Seriously--it is that good.
Brittany Podolak
I had an opportunity to work with the authors of this book on a big project at work. The book lays out the foundation for an in-field training system for salesmakers. The premise of the book (and the system) is to focus on the customers' exact needs by spending much more time in discovery and less time "pitching". A must read for anyone in relationship sales.
Sarah Phillips
Apr 07, 2010 is currently reading it  ·  review of another edition
Only read the first 50 pages or so thus far. This guy is full of himself! I had a hard time getting through the foreward. He gushed about himself and his impressive credentials until I hated him! Once I got into the content, this diminished. There seems to be some useful info, but we'll see as I continue.
Alex Fazel
Jul 09, 2016 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Really liked the effective questioning section and closing lines... Very practical and superior to most other books in that realm.

Quantifying soft goals or services to better measure their ROI was brilliant too!

Worth reading for those working in sales :)
Feb 19, 2015 rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: sales
interesting take on things, your boss won't like it.
Eddie Williams
Feb 06, 2015 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Solid read for servant hearted sales people
Keith Brooks
Wanted to like it and did on some levels but it left me with some good dogears so not so bad.
Paul Lanigan
The is the Sandler Selling System written by a client. The concepts are identical
Oct 25, 2010 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: audio-book
If you are in a B2B sales role, this is a must read book.
I like the examples, they way the book is organized and definitely i will try the framework.
Bernard Fruga
Nov 01, 2012 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Emphatic communication is the best selling tool.
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