Slow Dancing at Death's Door

by Amy C. Baker

She wiped away your tears when you skinned your knee. he taught you how to drive a stick shift. Together, they raised you to be the person you are today. They seemed invincible, but now things have changed—they're older, a little frail, and facing a new stage of life. Your parents aren't the only ones faced with change. You know there are adjustments you need to make to be prepared mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and financially for the transition—and this is the book that will help you. With Amy's counsel, you can offer your parents the kindness, grace, and dignity they need and desire.

256 pages, Paperback

First published December 6, 2005

Reviews

[Tami · Rating 5 out of 5]

Slow Dancing at Death's Door is a candid account of the author's experiences as her parents reached their final days. She shares her feelings of frustration, grief, anger, and all of those things she wish she hadn't said or did. For individuals suffering through similar circumstances will see themselves in the author's words, feel an instant connection to her most secret thoughts, and will take comfort in that they aren't alone in these aspects.

In addition to this very comforting material, the author also includes information to help educate the reader on things such as wills, power of attorney, and making preparation for all of those things we'd much rather put off. Despite our need to stay in denial, these simple preparations will not only make things run smoother in the long run but actually assure that your parents' wishes are fulfilled.

The author also urges people to really get to know their parents (their life before you were born, their stories, what they value, etc) and make a loving connection. This action is particularly important for those who have had falling outs with their parents.