The book was a big disappointment for me. From start to finish it was just one contradiction after another. The bottom line of what he is saying is "to be able to follow these teachings or rather concepts, you have to deny your own humaness and become divine." Divinity is beyond my pay scale. You would have to be a saint to follow these treachings. He also gives a bad connotation to anger, to lust, to survival, to justice, to being right, to violent thoughts, vengeful thoughts, whether warranted or not...and of course as I said it boils down to not being human. He says "hatred ceases by love" WRONG!!! Hatred ceases by justice and nothing else. He tells you to think of those who have harmed you, of your enemies in a way that you understand the harm they've done or are doing is about "their" pain and the suffering they have experienced or are feeling in their lives. He tries to justify their behavior as not their fault and therefore you should be compassionate and forgive them. I say he's victimizes the victim and puts the burden of their behavior on you to forgive and love the person in spite of whatever they may have done to you. Well, I say "bullshit, I'm not that compassionate and loving. " If you hurt me , the only thing that may bring some forgiveness is if I kick your ass or repay you in kind X 10 and then I may feel sorry for you that I fuc*ed you up so bad and I MIGHT find it in my heart to forgive you but I'll NEVER EVER forget what you did and I'll neverr ever trust you. In my book forgiveness means "you're dead to me." ... He says to be positive, and not be negative about things. I say "expect the worst and hope for the best." This is how I have learned to survive. The way this guy Levine is teaching you, you'd be eaten alive cause people will perceive your love, compassion and empathy as weakness. Let me explain, no one and I mean this sincerely, has more love compassion, respect and most importantly empathy for other people and animals, basically ANY LIVING THING. BUT, I don't turn the other cheek, never did , NEVER WILL... despite how sensitive and fragile I may feel inside, I won't hesitate to do whatever I have to by whatever means necessary to survive and remove the threat. This book reminds of a politicians speech in which he speaks for an hour and then does a question and answer period, and you walk out of there after two hours of listening to NOTHING but RHETORIC. I'll close this review with what I said in the beginning, the main message of this book is to deny yourt own humanity and humaness.