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But He'll Change: End the Thinking That Keeps You in an Abusive Relationship

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A survivor of domestic violence offers women the tools needed to work through the excuses they tell themselves that keep them in abusive relationships--and to make positive changes in their lives.

He loves me. He has a really sweet side. I am all he has. If only his boss wouldn't put him under so much stress. At least he doesn't hit me. He won't do it again. I can't do anyt
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ebook, 248 pages
Published March 24th 2010 by Hazelden Publishing (first published 2010)
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Lisa
Sep 17, 2011 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
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This book is for anyone who has been in any kind of abusive relationship. I felt like the author was in my head for 95% of the book. It's not just about the lies the perpetrator tells you, but about the lies you tell yourself and how to realize they are indeed lies.
Shannon Spiteri
May 24, 2017 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This book has really good insight to abusive relationships and what to do to help avoid being stuck in that relationship! I think with having an author that actually went through abuse and having someone you could relate to helps. I would definitely recommend this book.
Eleanor Cowan
Jul 20, 2014 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
'But He'll Change' communicates that the change must begin in the victim: the abused becomes the rescuer.

The author states that victims of abuse suffer chronic low self-esteem - and even the first steps at re-building it will be the first steps out of a hostile relationship. I remember an instance where my children told me they weren't hungry - that they didn't want supper and my first thought was 'Oh no, guess I won't be eating tonight.' Fortunately, I heard myself and made a delicious meal whi
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