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The Three Weissmanns of Westport

2.89  ·  Rating Details ·  7,097 Ratings  ·  1,518 Reviews
Betty Weissmann has just been dumped by her husband of forty-eight years. Exiled from her elegant New York apartment by her husband's mistress, she and her two middle-aged daughters, Miranda and Annie, regroup in a run-down Westport, Connecticut, beach cottage. In Schine's playful and devoted homage to Jane Austen's "Sense and Sensibility," the impulsive sister is Miranda, ...more
Kindle Edition, Reprint Edition, 304 pages
Published February 15th 2010 by Sarah Crichton Books (first published February 1st 2010)
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Elisa M
Apr 15, 2010 Elisa M rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: did-not-finish
I could only get halfway through this book. I found that I didn't care about the characters at all, and the plot was not exactly riveting either. Parts of it are funny, especially the way that Betty refers to herself as a widow and her (soon-to-be-ex) husband as dead ("may his soul rest in peace"). It wasn't enough to keep me going.
Malena Watrous
Mar 16, 2010 Malena Watrous rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
What I love about this book is (to use an Austen catchphrase) the author's sensibility, comic and divine. The same subject--an older woman abandoned and badly treated by her husband of half a century, left to make do with her middle aged and maladjusted daughters--could have been treated as a tragedy. But Schine sees the frailty and self-deceptions in all of her characters, and she manages to smile upon them nonetheless, or because of their all too human (and all too familiar) weaknesses. She's ...more
This book suffers from being overpraised in the New York Tmes (by the dull garden writer Dominique Browning). It also suffers from Schine's use of Sense and Sensibility for her plot. Even though Sense and Sensibility is the weakest of Jane Austen's five major novels (not counting Northanger Abbey), it makes a lot more sense than this book does. In Austen's world social order was established through marriage. Here in Schine's the romances of middle aged and elderly people are of consequence only ...more
Feb 23, 2011 Lnaimark rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
Picked this book up at the Nashville airport for my trip back to San Jose. It does work as an "airplane book" but I found myself continually being annoyed by the characters. The amazingly self-centered father Joseph, his manipulative new girlfriend Felicity, the "wronged" mother, Betty, and her two daughters.

Betty gets banished to a shack in Connecticut and gets every single penny of her funds cut off, while Joseph and Felicity get to stay in the fantastic apartment on Central Park West. And no
You should never pay attention to a blurb that reads, "...homage to Jane Austen." It will invariably set you up for a big letdown. Because the truth is, nothing is as good as Jane Austen.

In short: Modern day Upper West Side AARP husband, dumps dutiful wife for younger, VP from his company. Dumped wife moves with two aging daughters to a cottage in Connecticut while divorce is finalized. Wife, daughters meet a hodgepodge of characters; advanced aged daughters constantly whine about the state of t
Mar 15, 2010 Nicholas rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I read the fantastic review of The Three Weissmanns in the NYTimes Book Review a couple weeks ago. I've read Cathleen Schine before (The Evolution of Jane) and was not thrilled. But this review was stellar and made it sound like it was totally up my alley. And it was. Schine is really quite funny in The Three Weissmanns, especially in her characterizations of the protagonists, Betty Weissmann in particular. There is something about the way that Betty engages with the world without having caught ...more
Jenny  (hades2) (Chocolate Chunky Munkie)
This novel really failed on all levels for me. The blurb on the back of the book held such promise and I was really looking forward to getting my teeth into it. The first page was really exciting, but from then on it suddenly all went downhill for me.

I failed to find a connection with the three main leading ladies Betty (Mother), Miranda (Daughter) and Annie (Daughter). They had traits which I found both annoying and nauseating; this spoiled the whole book for me. I felt very unsympathetic towa
Bonnie Brody
Feb 29, 2012 Bonnie Brody rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
This is a very intelligent, poignant, and hilarious book that has parallels to Jane Austen's 'Sense and Sensibility'. Whether or not the reader is familiar with Austen, this is a book to love and relish. It is a thinker's book and a reader's book, a book written by an author who respects her readers' intelligence and knowledge of culture.

The book begins when Josie, 78 years old, tells his 75 year old wife, Betty, that he wants a divorce. They have been married for over 40 years. You guessed it -
The Three Weissmanns of Westport by Cathleen Schine is just about a perfect book. It begins with Betty Weissman, 76, and her husband, Josie (short for Joseph) in their upper West Side apartment. Josie tells Betty he wants a divorce. Soon Betty and her two middle-aged daughters, Annie (single mother of two grown sons) and Miranda (book agent recently ruined when two of her authors are discovered to have invented their memoirs) find themselves clinging together on a lifeboat in the guise of a smal ...more
Jul 26, 2010 Judith rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
A modern day version of Jane Austen's "Sense and Sensibility", absolutely delightful read. I could identify with all of the characters: the mother, whose husband decides at the ripe old age of 75 that he wants a younger wife, after 50 years of happy marriage; the 2 daughters, who are both on the cusp of being past their "sell-by" dates; and all the delightfully colorful characters who populate this book. Though it's mostly tongue-in-cheek funny, there are some very sad parts to the book, includi ...more
Jun 21, 2012 Ginny_1807 rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: romanzi
Drammone al femminile in odore di soap, che, per ragioni diverse, coinvolge un terzetto di mature signore della buona società newyorkese, la madre e due figlie sulla cinquantina, in un patetico esodo dalla città al fine di dare una svolta alla propria vita e in una macchinosa serie di escursioni amorose nelle direzioni più disparate e infauste. L’idea del divorzio tardivo dei genitori mi era sembrata interessante, ma mi hanno infastidito il clima artificiosamente spensierato, il tono frivolo dei ...more
Feb 03, 2011 Susan rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I vacillated between giving this novel two or three stars.

I do think that I expected more from this book after reading reviews on the book flap and from book sellers, and I generally enjoy character-driven narratives. Sure, I sympathized somewhat with Betty, the 75 year old woman who is dumped by her 78 year old husband for a younger woman (how cliched) and forced to move from a life of luxury to one quite different, and her two daughters, each with her own baggage. However, I was disappointed
Linda Marie Marsh
Betty's husband has moved on to greener pastures after manyyyyy years of marriage. She has declared herself to be a widow, and, forced to leave her luxurious NY City apt., she moves into a cottage that belongs to a cousin in Westport. Her 2 adult daughters join her , both having upheaval in their own lives.

This is not quick, light, beach read. Part kinda literature comedic drama?My favorite part of the whole thing was the development of the characters.... (cousin Lou shines)

So....sure. Go ahead
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Mar 19, 2012 Bobby rated it it was ok
I have to admit there were many pages within the covers of this book that I considered not worth reading, yet as a whole it was a decent read.

The beginning of the novel captured me as I read about the woman who I believed would be a central character, a woman whose husband of 48 years was divorcing to be with a younger woman. The writing was enigmatic, drawing the reader in to feel the same confusion as this woman and drawn to her wholly. Alas, since this was a modernization of Jane Austen's "S
May 05, 2013 Maxine rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
The beginning of this novel is really the end of sorts. Joe, asks his wife of 48 years, Betty, for a divorce. He cites irreconcilable differences. Betty says, “Irreconcilable differences? What does that have to do with divorce?” The rose colored glasses are off and we are shocked and upset with Betty. How can this be?

While trying to be a gentleman, Joe, on the advice of his lawyers, has cancelled all his wife’s credit cards and suggests she leave their upper scale apartment. This irreconcilable
Jun 15, 2012 JoAnn rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: book-club
Modern adaptations of classic novels seem to be everywhere lately and The Three Weissmanns of Westport, inspired by Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility, is one of the best I've come across. It's nearly as smart and witty as Jane herself, plus it's teeming with literary references.

I snapped it up (for only $1.50) at the library book sale last summer for two reasons. First and foremost, I love Jane Austen. Second, in the late 80's I lived near Westport, CT and was drawn to the setting. I was not d
Sheila DeChantal
The Three Weissmann’s Of Westport is a book I pulled off my shelf for our recent trip to Mexico. It looked like just the type of read I would enjoy while sitting at the pool. I was right. The book I found right from the start shocking, a 78 year old man after spending more than 50 years of his life with a woman decides to throw it all away for a younger, prettier, and quite honestly…. gold digger. I found myself flying through the pages waiting for Joseph to come to his senses.

Does he?

Well…. I c
Sep 12, 2014 Kassandra rated it did not like it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2014-rc
Oh boy...I really wanted to like this one. It came highly recommended to me but it was a total miss for me. I wish I was able to abandon books, I would have let this one go long before I made it to the 50th page. Unfortunately I can't so I had to slog through it and it was tough going. It was as though Schine created a promising story with some mediocre characters and then realized halfway through that she couldn't salvage the characters. Instead of going back to the drawing board, she flipped t ...more
Okay, so I really liked the part where one of the characters described the feeling of being on Connecticut commuter trains (lovely and true), and the freaked out New Yorkers' reactions when they come to "the country". Oooh, so accurate.

The rest irritated me. I reap my just rewards for ignorning Elizabeth's review.
Delia Franklin
Feb 05, 2014 Delia Franklin rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
I enjoyed this book. I liked the fact the characters were thrown together under extraordinary circumstances in their lives, and the characters themselves were amusing and likeable. The story was pretty good, too; it had structure and a satisfying conclusion. The writing style was pleasing and all in all, this book was a good, girly (but not frothy) read.
Dec 13, 2009 Perkimom rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
This was a fun romp--a hoot, involving families, particularly the women in families--as they discover each other again in adulthood in unfamiliar surroundings and circumstances.
Sep 28, 2014 Beth rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Surprised myself by really liking this book...the author has such a "calm writing style" which contrasts well with the chaos her characters are experiencing.
Georgiana 1792
Tutto da capo: un titolo a doppia valenza

Il titolo italiano dello spin-off di Ragione e Sentimento scritto da Cathleen Schine mi sembra particolarmente azzeccato, perché non solo richiama la trama del romanzo, alludendo alle tre Weissmann che devono ricominciare una nuova vita a Westport, ma sta anche ad evidenziare la ciclicità della vita, il ripetersi ancora e ancora di situazioni analoghe, dove cambiano i nomi, i personaggi e le relazioni fra loro, ma in realtà la storia continua a ripetersi,
Ann Bissell Luke
Jun 27, 2017 Ann Bissell Luke rated it liked it
I think in general, people like reading books about themselves, or like if you are upper class, or upper middle class and Jewish (which I am not) and living in Westchester or Fairfield County you will probably relate to this book. It reads like a conversation...something you might overhear at the "club". I found it to be a tonic of a book. I loved it! But I have just spent the last 20+ years in Rye Brook, NY around a lot of Weisssmanns!
Jun 30, 2010 Bridget rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: 2010-reads
This was another book that I had read reviews about, and thought might be fun to read. I found a copy at the library, and snapped it up off the shelf before anyone else could get it!

The characters in the title are a mother and her two grown daughters, all of whom move to a cousin's house on the beach in Westport, Connecticut when various things start to go wrong in their lives.

The book starts when Betty Weismann learns that her husband Joseph has plans to divorce her and marry his younger assis
Nov 11, 2012 Patty rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction, house-theme
This novel is being hailed as a modern day interpretation of Sense and Sensibility. The book is about a women who after almost 50 years of marriage finds out her husband is having an affair, and wants her to move out of their home in Central Park West, NYC, while divorce proceedings take place. He is seventy eight and she is seventy five. ?REALLY? After almost 50 years he states that there are irreconcilable differences and he wants to move on. Okay, I can't even imagine after almost 50 years of ...more
Dec 17, 2010 Susan rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Cathleen Schine bases her didactic and entertaining novel THE EVOLUTION OF JANE (1998) on the precious and fruitful conceit, that the contours of friendship and differentiation of young girls follow Darwin's theory of evolution. Or is it the other way around, that Darwin's observations of flora and fauna on the Galapagos can be understood in terms of young friendship?

That the novel is successful means that the metaphor cuts both ways. The story of Jane's engagement with and estrangement from he
Aug 03, 2013 L. rated it it was ok  ·  review of another edition
I had no expectations for the book, I simply picked it up as something to keep me entertained as I sat in a waiting room. I chose to ignore the blurbs about Jane Austen, because I knew if I latched onto that I'd just end up disappointed. It wasn't offensive, and was not exactly a waste of time, but at the end, I felt no more attached to the characters than I did when I originally picked it up. The first 50 pages were entertaining and had potential, it deteriorated from there.

I found myself not
Feb 26, 2011 K.M. rated it liked it  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: fiction
A couple that has been happily married for years and years (and years) suddenly hits a bump in the road in the form of (you guessed it) a younger woman. In a familiar story, she is a secretary who sets out to lure her boss from his wife. They have two grown daughters who are not married who are also involved: their lives are dramatically changed by the separation of their parents as well as other events happening in their personal lives. The wife, Betty, adopts the story that her she is a widow ...more
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Cathleen Schine is the author of The New Yorkers, The Love Letter, and The Three Weissmanns of Westport among other novels. She has contributed to The New Yorker, The New York Review of Books, The New York Times Magazine, and The New York Times Book Review.
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