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The Disappearance of Childhood

3.97  ·  Rating details ·  1,148 ratings  ·  122 reviews
From the vogue for nubile models to the explosion in the juvenile crime rate, this modern classic of social history and media traces the precipitous decline of childhood in America today and the corresponding threat to the notion of adulthood.

Deftly marshaling a vast array of historical and demographic research, Neil Postman, author of Technopoly, suggests that childhood i
Paperback, 192 pages
Published August 2nd 1994 by Vintage (first published April 1st 1984)
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Nov 03, 2008 rated it really liked it
Interesting, and not terribly encouraging. I wish there were a 21st-century update. Writing in the early 80's (updated in 1993), Postman observes that children are being treated like little adults, and adults are beginning to act like children. Pubescent girls are held up as sex symbols in advertising; children's games (hide and seek, hopscotch) are disappearing and being replaced by professionally organized sports leagues; grownups wear jeans and sneakers to the office and pepper their speech w ...more
May 18, 2017 rated it really liked it
Shelves: 2017
"The shock of twentieth century technology numbed our brains, and we are just beginning to notice the spiritual and social debris our technology has strewn about us."

Postman is an honest liberal, which places him in the curious position of diagnosing ills for which his own worldview has been largely responsible. At one point in the book, he himself acknowledges this irony. He doesn't like the fruit of secular humanism; one wishes he would just repudiate the tree itself, roots and all.

Jun 06, 2008 rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: any parent
I like Postman. I think I've read most of his books. I’ve learned that I frequently agree with what he writes. He is a critic and has won the National Council of Teachers of English George Orwell Award for Clarity in Language (1986). Okay, I know, awards don't always signify, but in this case, I have no doubt he earned it. He writes with a clarity and conciseness I struggle not to envy.

The theme of The Disappearance of Childhood is that our culture is hostile to childhood. I think Postman make
Frieda Vizel
Sep 19, 2017 rated it really liked it
Thoughts, so many thoughts.

1. Neil Postman is my foremost favorite cultural critic and Ideas Man. He is not a progressive and he is not a conservative; he is just a refreshing mix of big ideas that I don't hear anywhere else and could certainly not have thought up myself. I don't experience him as preaching from a place of dogma or some sinister self-serving agenda; he seems to have been a genuine humanist. What a loss that he isn't alive today to help us contextualize the hyper-connective age i
Nov 21, 2014 rated it it was ok
In this book, Neil Postman argues that (a) childhood is a social construct, not a biological fact and (b) childhood is disappearing because of television and modernity in general. The former is debatable but defensible (his exclusive focus on Europe/America leaves significant holes in his argument), but the latter is just ridiculous. It has been 30 years since this book was originally published, and as someone who went through childhood in the period since, I feel pretty comfortable saying that ...more
Jun 03, 2017 rated it really liked it
I think Postman is a modern prophet. This book was wonderful, but not quite as good as his other books. I think this book is less about childhood than it is about technology and TV, which he covers more fully elsewhere.
Feb 23, 2014 rated it really liked it
I gave this book 4 stars because even though I disagree with how Mr. Postman came to many of his viewpoints, I agree with many of his conclusions. His position on how the media of today has destroyed the family and childhood was fascinating.
Mar 19, 2012 rated it really liked it
A blog I frequently read on the intersection of faith and technology has made mention several times of Neil Postman, and I finally decided to check out one of his books. The thread running through most of his commentary is that technology is a Faustian bargain: it adds something to our lives, but always comes at a price. Sometimes that bargain is apparent from the outset, but most frequently the trade-off only becomes known years or generations later, and usually in ways the inventors never expe ...more
علی‌رضا میم
Apr 13, 2013 rated it really liked it
میگه کودک و بالغ قبلنا یه مرز مشخصی بینشون بوده، تا اون بچه یه سری چیزا رو کسب نمیکرده، به جمع بزرگترها راه پیدا نمیکرده، مثل سواد و ادب و یه سری چیزای دیگه.
اما تلویزیون اومده طبقه بندی مطالب رو عوض کرده. هرنوع مطلبی رو در هر موردی به زبان شفاهی درآورده و همه مخاطب اون هستند. همه چیز رو به شوخی و خوش گذشتن برگزار میکنه چون اگه برنامه اینطور نباشه کسی برنامه رو نگاه نمیکنه، و یه سری چیزهای دیگه.

کتاب قدیمی و در مورد جامعه ی امریکاست، یه جورایی الان ما میشه.
در باب شناخت بهتر از دوران ما و اینکه بیگ
Dec 03, 2017 rated it really liked it
I generally enjoy Postman and his analysis of our electronic age. His best is "Amusing Ourselves to Death," and this work on childhood reflects some of the same themes and analysis. I think he overstates the grandeur of the Enlightenment and understates the intellectual vigor of the Middle Ages. One cannot read St Thomas and see his time as "dark" or "unenlightened." Literacy and childhood as a life stage seem to be linked as Postman argues, but I wonder at how accurate his assessment of Catholi ...more
Hollie D
Apr 26, 2018 rated it really liked it  ·  review of another edition
Excellent book. The author clearly lays out the destructive nature of TV and other graphic based media. Not only is he arguing that childhood is disappearing but also adulthood is diminishing. This book was originally published in the 1980s and the evidence that he was correct is daily before us. The popular phrase, "adulting" is a prime example of what Postman calls the, "adult-child." Such things like getting dressed, paying bills, arriving on time are all things that fall under the heading "a ...more
Jun 18, 2012 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: nonfiction
Whether the reader agrees with the author or not, this is a compelling examination of the history of what western civilization thinks of as "childhood", its present and future trajectory and why we should care. My five stars indicates that I feel this should be a MUST READ for all.

The copy I read was from the library. Now I must get my own copy and mark it throughout.

As a personal post script, upon reflection I think the main difference in the way my husband and I were raised is that he had a te
Lumumba Shakur
Apr 09, 2009 rated it really liked it
Postman's basic premise is that television has so radically altered Western society that it is eroding childhood as a social construction as it had been conceived since Enlightenment. His premise is heavily Eurocentric, but nonetheless has a great deal of merit. However, I believe that in 2013, history has demonstrated that huge parallel proposition of his theory has perhaps become even more manifest with very few people seeing it as concerning. Adulthood has been so thoroughly infantalized thro ...more
Aug 27, 2012 rated it it was amazing
I rediscovered and reread this little gem of a book in going through my shelves attempting to bring some order to them. I read it when it was originally published in 1982, at a time when our three children were respectively 12, 8 and 4, and its message seemed especially important and relevant. Mr. Postman advances the idea that the existence of a true childhood was not possible in medieval times and before, and only became possible and important with the invention of the printing press and the ...more
Jul 12, 2011 rated it really liked it
Fascinating book making the claim that the distinction between child and adult has largely disappeared in our world of new media. Postman wrote this a generation ago of the emerging dominance of television and one wonders what he would make of today's internet and social media.

The cultural concept of childhood is, according to Postman, a consequence of literacy. Print media created a world of knowledge and communication acquired through education. Over time certain topics, language, and themes
Apr 09, 2008 rated it really liked it
Recommends it for: child psychologists, teachers, parents, conservitism is a plus
Although I don't agree with EVERYTHING that was written (because I do seem to lean more towards the "liberal" side of things), I still give this book four stars, because of the way it was written. This book does raise some thought, and gives very interesting historical and psychological facts. The author did repeat himself, quite a few times, regarding the television, which did get "old" at times. I'm very glad I picked this one up, because I have learned a lot and my mind has been opened even m ...more
Pippa Robson
Jul 15, 2015 rated it really liked it
Interesting view on childhood in the "modern" world. Appropriate for it's era but now rather out of date as it fails to include any mention of the effect of the internet on the young.
I have no idea how to rate this book. Even though there's a lot in it I don't agree with, it was quite and interesting and thought-provoking read. Then again, some of its thought-provokingness stems from lack of logic, misuse of data, nonsequiturs and the like.

Data-wise, there are few things I believe should have been addressed in the 1994 edition, and not by saying "My re-reading of the book, sad to say, leads me to change nothing of importance in it. What was happening then is happening now. O
Nov 03, 2018 rated it really liked it
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Michael Webb
Feb 04, 2019 rated it liked it
Neil Postman's texts, despite being increasingly aged at this point, still manage to be scarily relevant. This text was originally published in the early 80s and was lightly revised in 1994. Despite that, a lot of Postman's argument rings true. He sets the table with a historical argument childhood as a distinct period of development was defined by the concept of shame and a curation of the information that they would be given access to. He sees this as really starting with the Gutenberg, and th ...more
Feb 06, 2018 rated it really liked it
infantile adulthood too?
The concept of childhood showed up around 17th century, kids in a family started to have different names. The parents used to called their kids with same name, probably thought the survival rate was low, why bother. Then the children literature showed up around 1744, but before that we considered the end of childhood was at age 7, kids are also cheap labor specially for industrial revolution. The idea of solid childhood appeared after middle class got more money to buy bi
Петър Стойков
Малко е тъпо да питаме какво е детство и от кога го има нали? Та нали всички сме били деца?

Да, ама не съвсем, поне според автора на "Изчезващото детство". Нийл Постман се опитва да докаже, че през по-голямата част от историята на човечеството идеята за "детство" не е съществувала така, както я възприемаме сега, че на децата е гледано като на дребни, глупави възрастни и че чак последните 200-300 години появата на печатното слово в ежедневието разделя рязко човечеството на можещи и неможещи да чет
jose coimbra
Mar 20, 2015 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Shelves: scilicet, clio
Neil Postman, neste clássico estudo publicado originalmente em 1982, não apenas descreve a história da constituição da ideia de infância, no rastro de P. Ariès, mas também assinala a experiência de seu desaparecimento.

O autor, crítico cultural e educador, natural dos EUA e falecido em 2003, desenha seu livro em duas partes. A primeira está centrada no tema da construção social da infância; a segunda, apresenta a tese de seu desaparecimento.

Postman mostra-nos que já entre gregos e romanos, certa
Stephen Langtry
Mar 03, 2018 rated it it was ok
I was on a good reading streak this year when I picked up Postman's book. For someone who is very critical of TV, Postman must have spent a lot of time watching TV in order to reach some of his conclusions. The book is very dry; while very thin, it is not fun to read and it took me a long time to get through it. There are some ideas and historical data, which are interesting, but at times Postman sounds like that uncle who one struggles to get away from; the one who complains about how children ...more
Barry Kenna
Jun 16, 2017 rated it it was amazing
Thought provoking look at how our mediums (etc Print, Radio, TV, Internet) not only affect children but how they the create the concept of childhood itself and are responsible for the gradual disappearance of childhood as we know it. The author seems to be saying that TV and the misuse of the internet can be seen as improved means to unimproved ends. It leaves you asking what are the advantages technological progress if it is not rooted in some form of moral framework. This book does not make so ...more
Jan 29, 2018 rated it liked it
This is a difficult book to rate. Not because it's hard to understand, but because it struggles to find its point. Understanding where the concept of childhood comes from is an important aspect of understanding where it is going, however, the majority of this book is about the history of literacy and the printing press and how that has shifted us toward the development of "childhood" as a concept.

By the time Postman gets to the thesis outlined in his book's title, it sounds more like one of the
Nolan Dodge
Jul 29, 2017 rated it it was ok
Neil Postman, in a nutshell, argues that the rise of literature created childhood and that television and the internet are destroying it. However, due to his rejection and opposition to Christianity, particularly to the Biblical variety, Postman views the evidence before him with a secular worldview thus eliminating any hope of accurately interpreting it correctly. Neil Postman's book is like a man who as accurately identified many points on a board, but only to connect them in a way is incompat ...more
Jul 23, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: journalism
This was unlike anything I had ever read before. I read about 100 pages of excerpts for a class, and it was one of my favorite readings of the semester. While some of Postman's assertions are outdated at this point, he makes some very thought-provoking points. This history of the idea of childhood and how it came about, its ties to literacy, and the written language were especially revealing to me. Highly recommend to anyone involved in media, publishing, or education.
Kata Bitowt
Aug 28, 2018 rated it liked it
Good lord, I'm glad I've finished it. Written in 1982 it is at time too (dangerously) outdated. It has some interesting points, keeping in mind that it was written before the Internet and social media. Although in many instances I was nervously shaking my head and scribbling angry comments in response to Postman's flawed arguments, it is bizarre to reflect on the topic from the point of near future.
Television is killing your children -- conceptually. In 1985, Neil Postman penned Amusing Ourselves to Death, in which he, building off of the lesson in Technopoly that technology changes our culture without our knowledge, examined television’s malevolent effects on political, civic, and religious discourse. The Disappearance of Childhood, published in 1982, is an earlier form of this argument, and one which focuses only on the effects of television on childhood. In it, he asserts that childhood ...more
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Neil Postman, an important American educator, media theorist and cultural critic was probably best known for his popular 1985 book, Amusing Ourselves to Death. For more than four decades he was associated with New York University, where he created and led the Media Ecology program.

He is the author of more than thirty significant books on education, media criticism, and cultural change including Te
“In saying no one knew about the ideas implicit in the telegraph, I am not quite accurate. Thoreau knew. Or so one may surmise. It is alleged that upon being told that through the telegraph a man in Maine could instantly send a message to a man in Texas, Thoreau asked, "But what do they have to say to each other?" In asking this question, to which no serious interest was paid, Thoreau was directing attention to the psychological and social meaning of the telegraph, and in particular to its capacity to change the character of information -- from the personal and regional to the impersonal and global.” 4 likes
“The world of the known and the not yet known is bridged by wonderment. But wonderment happens largely in a situation where the child’s world is separate from the adult world, where children must seek entry, through their questions, into the adult world. As media merge the two worlds, as the tension created by secrets to be unraveled is diminished, the calculus of wonderment changes. Curiosity is replaced by cynicism or, even worse, arrogance. We are left with children who rely not on authoritative adults but on news from nowhere. We are left with children who are given answers to questions they never asked. We are left, in short, without children.” 1 likes
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