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At Home in Japan: A Foreign Woman's Journey of Discovery

3.65  ·  Rating details ·  403 ratings  ·  71 reviews
"This portrait of Japanese country life reminds us that at its core, a happy and healthy life is based on the bonds of food, family, tradition, community, and the richness of nature" —John Einarsen, Founding Editor and Art Director of Kyoto Journal

What would it be like to move to Japan, leaving everyone you know behind, to become part of a traditional Japanese household? A
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Hardcover, 176 pages
Published May 10th 2010 by Tuttle Publishing
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Kate
Nov 05, 2020 rated it liked it
3/5stars

A collection of very short little essays along with beautiful drawings and photographs. I loved learning about rural Japan and this would be a great place to start for anyone who knows nothing about Japanese life or culture. Unfortunately, I do wish the essays were longer and more fleshed out, as well as they felt very randomly thrown together - there was no cohesion between them.
Leanne
Jan 25, 2021 rated it it was amazing
This was the most delightful book. A charming time slip, I kept having to look back at the publishing date because I couldn’t believe it was published in 2010! It had such a wonderful old fashion quality, from the hand drawn illustrations and beautiful photographs to the meandering style. Having lived in Japan for 25 years, I felt so nostalgic reading this and really enjoyed the details about life in the countryside.

It was more than anything the celebration of a house... in some distant way lik
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AnHeC the Paperback Obliterator
word count: 60 000 (only? or is my maths that much off?)

rating: in high doses results in overwhelming feelings of 'meh'




This book was OK. Just fine. Nothing exceedingly good or exceptionally bad about it. Don't get me wrong, I did have some fun with it, but only some.

It was a Christmas gift, so I promptly proceeded to read it. That was a mistake. First 60 pages (out of the whooping 187) enthralled me. I should have stopped then. The book is divided into ultra short (2-3 page long) chapters. Nice
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Amanda Setasha Hall
Dec 29, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: zzz-2018
I wasn't sure what to expect of this book, and I loved absolutely everything about it.
While it's a little lacking in details, the ones that exist do not disappoint.

It's hard to find books about Japanese society as a whole and traditions in general.
This is an account of a foreigner that moved to Japan with her Japanese husband and about their day to day life and certain events.

It was really eye opening and honestly will probably be a book I look forward to buying in the future.
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CrazyUnicorn
Jul 15, 2017 rated it really liked it
I've always liked Japan and the Japanese culture. It's fascinating how tradition and modern life can blend so well. I like that the japanese are so polite and that they care so deeply for family and education.

If you plan to travel to Japan or move to Japan. You should probably travel there first before you decide to move there ;) Then this is the book you should read. It explains typical Japanese things so that foreigners can understand it.
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Liane Wakabayashi
May 10, 2021 rated it really liked it
Shelves: inspirational, japan
I'm glad I read At Home in Japan before meeting Rebecca Otowa, as it stirred in me both admiration and a desire to get to know the author whose slow, chilled, pastoral, earthy life in the countryside was the opposite of what I was experiencing in hyper-consumerist, wildly stimulating and oftentimes exhausting Tokyo. Yet I saw parallels. I was moved by Otowa’s life choices--not easy--and even the impulse to document and illustrate aspects of a house as if Home were the central family member. Ever ...more
Rashmi
Feb 16, 2022 rated it liked it
Shelves: 2022
Japanese culture and their traditions just in 176 pages...was totally amazing to read. Detailed review @ - https://rashmidk.wixsite.com/openbook... ...more
Lauren
Sep 20, 2019 rated it it was ok
Shelves: own
This book was given to me by the leader of my Japan trip. It bothered me actually. Very dated; written in the 80s by a woman who gave up get entire existence to marry and live in Japan. Many of the Japanese customs (like the wife of the house bathing last everyone else in the same bath water and then having to clean the bathroom) would not have been ok with me. At all. The book was also very disjointed in terms of the topics the author chose to write about.
Books on Asia
Nov 28, 2018 rated it it was amazing
Shelves: japan
This is the most beautiful, eloquently written book on traditional Japan I've ever read. And while this traditional Japanese lifestyle is changing, you can still find it in the countryside today. Otowa values Japanese beauty and arts and she infuses her prose with this appreciation. I hope she writes more like this because she truly has a gift for writing. ...more
Nancy
Dec 15, 2010 rated it it was amazing
I'm sad to have finished this. It felt like sitting, talking with a good friend who knows the country and the culture as only a gaijin allowed into the inner chambers could. Beautiful, personal. ...more
Ria Bridges
May 24, 2020 rated it liked it
I wanted to rate this book higher, I really did. Really, it doesn’t have any faults or flaws that I can point out as such, at least not that can leigitmately extend beyond the matter of personal taste. I found the prose a bit dry at home, but stylistically, that isn’t enough to condemn a book entirely.

It took me longer than it ought to have to get through this book, and I think ultimately the reason lies in the fact that it wasn’t what I was expecting. From the description online, I had expected
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Rebecca
Oct 15, 2017 rated it liked it
I love the structure of the book. It is a memoir of sort, but written in short passages of a particular subject matter. The subject matter could be as tangible as the kimono, but could also be intagible as the concept of mono no aware. It could also be the writer's direct observations, but also her reflections, which sometimes are told from the third person perspective (e.g "The House Speaks").

I like how Rebecca-san, being the woman who runs a traditional farmhouse in rural Kyoto, imparts on int
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Maria
Nov 15, 2017 rated it it was ok
I just couldn't get into this book; I tried, I really did, but I just kept putting-it off, and finally, read it until I could say that I had finished it. I found that most of the book was the author talking about the various traditions of Japan, with many of them being described in elaborate language, which lost me throughout many points of the book. I found that the illustrations were nice, and was impressed by the eloquence of the writing style from time-to-time. However, I guess I was hoping ...more
Suzanne
Jul 12, 2017 rated it really liked it
It was really interesting to read these little vignettes on an outsider's impression of Japan. Especially, since she comes in as Japan becomes more westernized. The author is more traditional than other women her age as she tries to fit in with her new family. I love how she finds a balance between her western sensibilities and the traditional way. ...more
Janet
Jul 17, 2017 rated it liked it
Shelves: 2017, asian, people
This was shelved in the memoir section of the library. However, the author doesn't spend much of the book talking about herself. Instead it is a collection of essays on life in a rural Japanese village. It is a good read for those who are seeking to learn more about Japanese culture. But it falls short in terms of a memoir. ...more
Mae
Dec 30, 2018 rated it liked it
A quaint, intimate view of rural Japanese life from a foreigner's retrospective. I enjoyed the small ink-wash images and short chapters. As it is written by an "Oba-chan," the author does come across as formal or nostalgic at times. I had expected a more chronological narrative style, but the book being what it is - is enjoyable just the same. ...more
Nancy
Nov 08, 2022 rated it liked it
Shelves: nonfiction, memoir, japan
For some unknown reason I set this down after starting it and didn't pick it up again for several months. When at last I began again I was completely captivated and read it in an afternoon. Lovely description of Japan from an expat who married a Japanese man. I want to share it with friends in Japan and see how it compares to their own experiences. Very enjoyable. ...more
Liz
Nov 01, 2017 rated it really liked it
This was lovely and wonderful. A real intimate look into the authors life and her journey through life in Japan. Every chapter is different and reads like a cultural exploration with hints of a memoir sprinkled on top. It was sublime.
Jane G Meyer
A small glimpse into every day life in rural Japan by an American/Australian expat. Quick, easy read. Each chapter is its own little world... Somehow the book lacked depth, or an underlying theme besides something as inert as the actual house...

I learned things, but wasn't inspired.
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Joe Palermo
Aug 19, 2020 rated it it was amazing
A very deep description of Japanese culture and customs by a non-Japanese that has lived most of her life in Japan. Having lived in Japan for eight years myself, I really appreciated her wealth of knowledge and insights into Japanese culture.
Stephanie Barth
Mar 30, 2020 rated it really liked it
This is more of a collection of short essays and does not go into much detail but still it was very insightful and enjoyable.
Kolumbina
Jul 01, 2020 rated it it was amazing
Absolutely loved it!
James Boosey
Mar 12, 2021 rated it it was ok
2.5 Stars
Andrew Innes
Nov 16, 2021 rated it it was amazing  ·  review of another edition
Excellent. A lovely look into rural life in Japan.
Mary
Feb 21, 2017 rated it it was amazing
One of the best books on the insides of Japanese life. The part you will almost never ever see or get to know as a tourist! Kind of trip to the depth of Japanese soul.
Arminzerella
Rebecca was a young woman living in Australia when she decided to focus on Asian Studies at university. Her educational interests led her to Japan where she met her future husband, Toshiro – who was interested in Australia. When they married, he brought her home to his family’s very rural and traditional house where she was expected by her in-laws and the community to transform herself into a proper housewife. It was a difficult transition for Rebecca, who was accustomed to speaking her mind, to ...more
Blake
Jan 08, 2015 rated it really liked it
This is a lovely, mellow, relaxing and well-written book. There's little nuggets of trivia and history that most hardcore Japanese aficionados won't know, and it strikes a good balance between criticism and praise of Japan, although at times there is a definite strand of "poor me" running through the writing. In fact, it seems to me to be less a series of essays to an external readership than it is a public counting of blessings and reaffirmation of love for her family, house and adopted country ...more
Catherine
May 26, 2010 rated it really liked it
Otowa has spent the last thirty years living in a traditional Japanese household with her husband, two sons, and for a time his family in a 350-year-old farmhouse in a small village. She delves into numerous facets of Japanese life including her wedding, raising her sons, her attempts at fitting in, village life, festivals and rituals, and finding appreciation and genuine affection for the life that she chose for herself three decades ago. She has a delicate, almost nurturing nature to her writi ...more
Judy
Jun 17, 2010 rated it liked it
Shelves: japan, non-fiction
This is a rather sedate read as the book has no plot. Rather, it consists of vignettes about Ms. Otowa's life in Japan. She uses a 350 year-old house as a centerpiece for some of the discussion.

Although you don't get the feeling that Ms. Otowa regrets her decision to marry a Japanese man and spend her life there, rather than in the USA, you do feel somewhat sorry for her as he age-group peers in Japan continue to treat her like an outsider even after ~30 years. She clearly seems to regret what f
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Rebecca Otowa has been the chatelaine of a 350-year-old farmhouse in rural Japan. She left her original home in California in 1967, and her adopted home of Australia in 1978, to strike out in a radically new life direction. She and her husband Toshiro have raised two sons and now live in a rural village near Kyoto, in a farmhouse that has been in the family since it was built in the 1600s. As well ...more

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