IT'S NEVER TOO LATE TO LEARN HOW TO LOVE When you fall in love you may be repeating bad relationship habits that you learned growing up or in a previous unhealthy relationship. No matter what your history, Getting Love Right can explain how to build and maintain healthy intimacy, * How to recognize if you are in a compulsive, apathetic, or healthy relationship * How to become a person who is capable of healthy intimacy * How to choose a healthy partner If you are in a relationship or want to be in one, Terence T. Gorski will teach you that love isn't just something that happens -- love is something you can learn.
Insightful book that teaches you to look at yourself, your childhood, and your past relationships for more self-awareness in your current relationships.
Highly Recommend. If you don't know what a good relationship looks like how will you find one? This book tells you what it looks like and how to build it.
I find that this book helped me lay out my history of relationships to a 'T' and let me visually see and recognize patterns within myself and the relationships. It helped me understand why I've chosen the type of people that I have, what I like and didn't like about my decisions, and ultimately how it has helped me learn more about myself, my difficulties with intimacy, and how I can create healthier behaviors for myself by understanding my past.
Ok, I didn't actually read this book, but the author does an accompanying lecture/ slide-show about it which I have seen on VHS 10-12 times so far (for work) and discussed it with groups of teens and adults. His style is terribly scholarly and dry, but the advice is spot-on and great material for discussion.